ADJUST YOUR SAILS!

I have heard a lot of complaining lately. The majority of it is just the lack of motivation to continue when things get tough. Life is not "Smooth Sailing" all the time but there is a way to keep sailing.

 William Arthur Ward said, “The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.” Leaders, like everyone else, are exposed to changing circumstances and obstacles. There are no exemptions. But what sets the leader apart from others is her or her ability to adapt in a way that it causes no significant disruption because he can adjust the sails. When the adversities of life blow your way, adjust the sails. In doing so you are not acknowledging defeat you are just positioning yourself for a greater opportunity because of it. Adjust your attitude; adjust your sails!

I'm A First Round Pick!

Today is Draft Day! For football fans, this is a day that is longed for year after year. Some are rooting for their favorite players to be picked early. The top question to be asked by the choosing team is, "How will player X help our team to succeed?"

Here are also some questions that we must ask ourselves."What makes me valuable to a team that is wanting to select me?" "What am I doing to make myself desired?" "What am I doing to improve my chances of selection?"

In the NFL draft, players are examined, prodded, poked, measured and analyzed in every possible way. They take a timed logic and reasoning test that is used to gauge calm and critical thinking in high pressure situations.

A test that is used and has become one of prominence is the PACE - (Performance After A Critical Error) test. It looks to see what a player does immediately after making a mistake.

It may not be as easy to quantify as how fast the player can run a certain distance or how much weight that player can lift, but it may be more critical in determining who can make the team better. PACE is a silent determiner in examining how the shadow of a past mistake affects future performance.

Players who demonstrate a high quality PACE find themselves as favorites in the front offices just like those who know how to handle difficult moments are highly valued in other businesses.

Imagine you have just made a mistake in a key situation that could be detrimental to your teammates. How will you respond immediately after when you are called upon to deliver the goods? Do you lose focus and compound the problem with additional errors or do you move on and focus on the next play?

If you want to increase your value and potential for success, increase your PACE. It is the ultimate show of that characteristic that everyone wants: mental toughness. Will you play scared, or will you play through? Don't let that mistake cost you another play! Understand that any error you make, the most important thing is your performance on the next play.

“Well, we all make mistakes, dear, so just put it behind you. We should regret our mistakes and learn from them, but never carry them forward into the future with us.” ― L.M. Montgomery

 Blessed,
Dr. Tim

PACE is the silent determiner in examining how the shadow of a past mistake affects future performance.  - See more at: http://www.success.com/blog/the-pace-how-mentally-tough-are-you#sthash.ZWeRdv3X.dpuf

PACE is the silent determiner in examining how the shadow of a past mistake affects future performance.  - See more at: http://www.success.com/blog/the-pace-how-mentally-tough-are-you#sthash.ZWeRdv3X.dpuf

DOLLHOUSE DREAMS AND G.I. JOE ADVENTURES!

As a kid, one of my favorite toys was a G.I. Joe action figure. I didn't have any sisters, but I did have several cousins that were girls. Their favorite toys were their dolls. Sometimes when we were all together, those dolls and action figures came alive! We would play for hours telling each other what was happening and what would happen next.

A few weeks ago, I heard a lady say that she wished she could live her "Dollhouse Dreams". She seemed to be unhappy with her present state of affairs and asked me if I had any suggestions. I said, "Yes I do." I then began to share with her how she could live those Dollhouse Dreams.

There are four things that we did as kids that we should do today in order for us to have the success we want.
1. We saw ourselves as what we wanted to be! Whether it was a Hero that came to the rescue in the nick of time or a Princess that ruled in an enchanted kingdom. How do we see ourselves today? However we see ourselves determines the course of action we take for our lives.
2. We created the story! It was all based on the choices we made. Whatever we wanted to accomplish, wherever we wanted to go, whatever we wanted to see, it was all up to us! What story are we creating for our lives today? What choices are we making?
3. We acted out what we created! It did not stay as only a dream. We acted on it. We became the very person our action figures or dolls were supposed to be. Truth is, we are today acting out the story we have created. For some, it is not nearly as exciting as it was then.
4. We controlled the ending! Through the danger, excitement, and all of the suspenseful unknowns, we decided how it would end. Today, we still decide how it will end.

It is not too late nor are we too old to have the life we desired as a kid. All we have to do is apply these four principles right now. Don't wait. Decide today that we are the action figures and dolls. Make it happen!
Reflecting back on those days, I can now see that those days were really a rehearsal for our lives.

Blessed,
Dr. Tim 

I'M AN AUTHOR!

On April 26, 2014 I published my very first book on Amazon! It's titled PINK BUTTERFLIES: The Emerging of Potential. After several years of wanting to publish, my wife finally convinced me to go for it. Now, I'm so happy that I did!

This first book is written primarily for Mary Kay consultants. However, the lessons and principles written in this book will benefit anyone who has a desire to grow and become what they were created to be! There are many more books to follow! So, keep an eye out for them! I will be giving those who read this blog a heads up on upcoming titles.

Here is the book and where you can find it:

http://www.amazon.com/PINK-BUTTERFLIES-The-Emerging-Potential-ebook/dp/B00JYIQTIG/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1398796352&sr=8-1&keywords=tim+driggers

 
Get yourself a copy today, read it and be sure to leave a review at Amazon!

“A bird doesn't sing because it has an answer, it sings because it has a song.”  Unknown


Blessings,
Dr. Tim

Farming Your Success Pt.1

Mark 4:14-15 (NKJV)
14 The sower sows the word.
15 And…the word…was sown in their hearts.

The parable of the sower illustrates that after investigating the truth found in God’s Word or “The Master’s Book of Success Principles”, people fall into one of four groups.  These groups also teach us important principles that we should apply toward our life’s success goals. Each group represented in the parable responded differently depending upon the condition of their heart.

Verse 14 states, “The sower sows the word.”  The seed sown is the truth contained in God’s Word.  Verse 15 states where the Word of God is sown – in your heart!  Your heart is the part of you that facilitates the results in your life, and what you permit into your heart programs your success mechanism.

The greater your understanding of this parable the easier it will be for you to program your success mechanism.  Three important points will add to your understanding and effectiveness:

1. This parable makes the analogy of the heart being like the ground.  If the ground is prepared properly, the seed sown produces an abundant harvest.  When your heart is free of rocks, weeds, and thorns, it will facilitate positive results in your life.  Taking action with a prepared heart will cause the power of God to move on your behalf.  When that happens, you receive major assistance as you move toward the realization of your God-given dream.

2. The ground does not distinguish between various seeds.  The ground produces whatever gets planted!  If a farmer plants nightshade, a deadly poison, the ground will produce nightshade.  If a farmer plants corn, the ground will produce corn.  Your heart does not distinguish between the various seeds (concepts, principles, and ideas) that you plant in it.  Your heart will return to you an abundance of whatever you plant, but your heart does not distinguish between the various seeds (concepts, principles, and ideas) that you plant.  It is your responsibility to plant a good crop.  If you plant a good crop, your heart will produce positive results in your life.  Apply the principles in God’s Word and your heart will produce success for you.  Your abundant harvest waits for you to plant in your heart the success principles found in God’s Word.

3. There are four possible groups of people and every individual falls into one of these four groups.  Jesus refers to four distinct groups of people in this parable, and only one of the groups produces lasting results.

Group 1: Those by the wayside where God’s Word was sown (Mark 4:15)
Group 2: Those on stony ground where God’s Word was sown (Mark 4:16)
Group 3: Those among thorns where God’s Word was sown (Mark 4:18)
Group 4: Those on good ground where God’s Word was sown (Mark 4:20)

God's Word is our "Farmer's Almanac" of success! It reveals all we need to know in order to be everything God intends for us to be. All we have to do is follow His instructions.

 
“The ultimate goal of farming is not the growing of crops, but the cultivation and perfection of human beings.” Masanobu Fukuoka

Blessed,

Dr. Tim

"Play the Sunset"

“Mr. Holland’s Opus” is the story of a musician who really just wants to be a composer. Rather grudgingly, he takes a job teaching music at the local high school, supposing it will give him time to write music while providing an income for him and his wife.

One of his students is a very serious red-headed girl who plays the clarinet terribly, even though she practices constantly. As Mr. Holland works with her to try to help, he learns that she is the youngest in a family where everyone excels – except her. Because she has tried so hard and failed, she considers herself a failure, too.

One day she comes into the music classroom and tells Mr. Holland that she’s going to give it up and if he knows anyone who wants her clarinet, he can give it to them.

As she walks away, Holland asks her, “Is it any fun?” With a shrug, she answers, “I wanted it to be.”  “You know what we’ve been doing wrong, Miss Lang? We’ve been playing the notes on the page.”

Confused, the girl asks, “Well what else is there is to play?” “There’s a lot more to music than notes on a page. Playing music is supposed to be fun. It’s about heart. It’s about feelings and moving people and something beautiful and being alive and it’s not about notes on a page. I could teach you notes on a page. I can’t teach you that other stuff.”

He takes away her music and tells her to try it. She tries a time or two, each time coming to a point where she her clarinet squawks and squeaks and she starts to kick herself for her failure.
“What do you like best about yourself?” he asks. With a shy smile she says, “My hair – my dad says it reminds him of a sunset.”

“Play the sunset.” And she closes her eyes, and she begins to play – really play, not just the notes, but the music. She is so amazed when she does the hard part perfectly that her eyes pop open and she stops. Mr. Holland shares her amazement and says, “Don’t stop!”  And so, on she plays: eyes closed, head beginning to sway with the rhythm of it. And we know that this time, it is fun.

Sometimes I wonder if some of us aren’t guilty of doing the same thing when it comes to our relationship with our success or our lives. We try to get everything right. We follow the rules, try to do what others do, – thinking maybe if we do it all right, maybe God will make it OK.

But just like music is a whole lot more than notes on a page, life and success are a whole lot more than obeying rules.

Eph. 3:20 - "Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us, ..." tells us something very significant about the character of God. And tells us something significant about us, too.

The Apostle Paul has asked God to grant the Ephesians some staggering things. In a sense he asks God to enable people who have been trying – not always successfully -- to play the notes on the page to play music. He is asking God to take life’s musical dropouts and make them into virtuosos.

Play the Sunset! Life is more than just playing the notes!

Blessed,

Dr. Tim 

"She Just Won't Quit!"

As the end of June approached, I watched in delight and amazement as my wife worked feverishly to finish the goal that she had set for herself. June is the year-end month for her company.

She fell just slightly short of her personally set goal but was in great spirits. She continued to speak of what she actually did accomplish even though the ultimate goal was not reached. Her persistence is amazing! She has already begun the new business year with a work ethic that would fill others with envy.

She didn’t quit, offer excuses as to why she fell short, whine, or blame others for her missed opportunity. SHE REMAINED PERSISTENT!

If you really want to be successful, you probably spend a lot of time reading motivational books and articles because you want to know what qualities are required for success. After reading through the long lists of how to, there is a short sentence that tells us if we really want to be successful, we must have persistence.

Onetime Speaker of the House Newt Gingrich said, "Persistence is the hard work you do after you're tired of all the hard work you've already done." Well said. Persistence means, simply, refusing to give up - but especially when faced with difficulty or opposition. It is the quality of never giving up when we encounter challenges. It is holding on to our dream. Of refusing to be discouraged no matter what the odds, no matter what happens.

We are even told that the reason they are successful today is because they were persistent. They persevered in chasing their dream, no matter what happened. When success gurus and other successful people tell you that they got to where they are today because they were persistent, they are actually leaving out a very important part of the story. And the part that they are leaving out is this: They forget to tell you that before they were persistent, they had a goal, and they had a plan on how to get there. All along the way, after every step they took, they stepped back to evaluate the results to see if the results they were getting were the results they wanted. If they weren’t getting the results they wanted, then they would change the steps they took.

These successful people did have persistence, but they were only persistent about holding on to their vision. They were never persistent about the method they took to get to their goal. All along the way, they were prepared to be very flexible and experiment to see what techniques and strategies worked best to get where they wanted to go.

People who admire persistence often use the example of Thomas Edison who kept trying to produce an electrical light bulb even after ten thousand failed attempts. But people often forget that while Thomas Edison was persistent in believing in his goal, he was not persistent in the way he tried to achieve it. Thomas Edison did not repeat the same experiment over and over again ten thousand times. Thomas Edison performed about ten thousand different experiments on his way to trying to find a practical electrical light bulb.

Every time he tried an experiment to produce an electric light bulb, he then backed up and took some time to evaluate the results. He figured out what was working and what wasn’t working. Then he would try something different the next time. And he would keep track of the results.
So, remember this crucial difference the next time someone tries to tell you that persistence is the key to success.

Honey, your persistence is an example to all! 

Blessed,

Dr. Tim